Well we took the plunge and got a nice family car. We figured we should be one now while we can afford it rather than wait until we have more kids. Plus, the pathfinder was just too small for us. The car seat barely fit in the back. And it was slowly dying so we decided to get the van. It will have much better highway mileage and it feels like it's twice as big as the pathfinder. Yay! It's a 2007 Honda Odyssey with only 45,000 miles on it. We are very excited and can't wait until we go to Cali in June and test it out on a long journey!